First of all I want to explain you why I chose this topic to write reflection. What I find interesting is despite the common belief in Turkey not every young adult in USA doesn't leave their parent's house. This process in USA goes similar to how it goes in Turkey according to the passage I read.
I somehow agree with the idea of staying with parents may be beneficial economically but it is beneficial just economically not psychologically or in some other aspects of life. The passage says that quite a few individuals staying with their parents are happy and doing this voluntarily. They are staying with their parent because they need extra money or they get divorced. When life gets hard the only thing seeming right and convenient is going to your mummy’s warm arms sometimes. However, according to my opinion it is not the right choice. The ones having hard times in their lives have to learn to deal with the troubles they have.
We always think that the things about leaving someone his or her parents’ home are different from the things in Turkey. However, the passage shows us the opposite. According to this passage most of the single people are living with their parents surprisingly. As I mentioned before there are more hazardous effects of staying with parents than positive effects.
First of all, situation which forces you to staying with your parents affects your psychological condition. In addition to this hardship, add your parents’ behaviours limiting your freedom and demanding to live according to their thoughts. I assume that this condition may lead someone to have more deeper psychological problem more than the hardship you came across before moving out your parents’ home.
Secondly, I want to mention further effects of living with parents on someone. In my opinion this situation makes cause to lose someone his or her self-confidence because this situation shows that you can’t make it on your own. Also if we think about it deep down it may even lead to depression. 
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